Priorities

I really need to figure out what they are.... I'm really struggling with work right now. I just don't want to be here and it's starting to make me miserable at home too. But I'm not making any effort to make a change or figure out what my options are. The big question that always comes to my mind is "are we having another child or not?" If so I don't want to change jobs.... but I don't know if I can wait that long..... argh I'm so frustrated and depressed!